Family and Angels

[Dengar27]

Ok, Last Easter I had a close cousin commit suicide. She had been fighting her own "demons" for a long time from mental instability. Finally, she found medicine that got her strsight and she went to church more and gave her life to Christ. After abour 6 years of still fighting, she gave in. I talked to her last, Thanksgiving of 2005 and then again the night after she died. I though it was a dream but the dream took place in the house I grew up in. I know important things will happen when one of my dreams occurusing this locale. I recall standing in the livingroom and hearing my grandma saying, "Marc, Marc, come hear, come see who come to visit us." I walk around the corner and the is my cousin Julie standing with my mom, 2 aunts, and my grandma. I step back in shock and say, " you're dead, you're not suppose to be here." She tells me that she's not dead and she is very happy. She gives me this big smiles and starts changing her hair styles, going through all the styles she had growing up. She projected to me that she has overcome her demons and she's more alive than ever. I never was able to attend her funeral and that dream was closure for me but it's still hard to think about. I told her parents exactly the dream and there is no word to describe their joy. I was thinking about how the four people were holding Julie...after looking back, I can see they had lead her in the room from the way they were holding her. I never doubted angels exist but I believe in them more after that dream.I can't say it's really a dream b/c it didn't feel like my normal dreams....and like any other person, you know how a dream feels.

[Marc Brunson]

The one thing about dreams is that we can not prove much with it in the way we can outside the realm of what only we see ourselves. I can say for myself that I have had dreams that seemed very much real and different from what I could consider just my mind at work in a normal state.

I certainly wouldn't discount what is in yours or other's dreams any more than I would discount my own, however, dreams are hard to explain with the scientific method with the current technology available.

[ArkGoddess]

I totally believe that you had a visit in that dream. Sometimes loved ones do come to us in dreams simply because that is where we are most open to their messages. If you feel intense emotions, and the dream seems real to you and you even see intense colors, you might well be receiving communication from your departed loved one. You showed up in your childhood home because you were wanting to get back to the time when you had that childlike safety and security and you wanted the freedom you felt as a child. She was letting you know that she is, indeed, ok and that she is not suffering although she did take her own life. It seems that a lot of folks that do end their life early is because they can't handle the path that they are given and would like to go to God. God forgives all of his children and loves them unconditionally, so of course, He welcomed her with open arms. And, yes, that was closure for you so take it as such and feel happiness that she is indeed safe and happy....

[Dengar27]

Thank you for that. I really appreciate your comment. I do take it as a closure. Not many people would be forward about that. I knew it was real so I had to let her parents know. They prayed for some message to let them know she was going to be ok. If you know of anyone or you, yourself, with an experience similar, please tell them to post. These sections are for free posting. That's why they were created. Thank you again.

[Patti]

My little brother has autism and when he was a little younger he wouldn't talk directly to people but use plush dolls instead to talk for him like puppets. My aunt always thought it was fun and cute that he did this, so she played along when we got to see her. Well, the night after she died, my brother had played out in the barn with his plush dolls and his only friend at the time and left them there by accident. He woke up in the middle of the night to someone calling his name. It was my aunt and she was playing with the plush dolls, making them kiss each other's faces and talk to one another in that high pitched, cute voice. Then when she was done, she said "Goodbye!" and disappeared.
He woke up the next morning, thinking it had been a dream, but the plush dolls were there, on his bed.
The next night after he told me this, I woke to her calling my name. I was younger then, so I was too frightened to turn around and face her to say goodbye, so I said, "Aunt Pat, I know that's you and I love you, and watch over my family and pass on for us." Now I wish I had actually turned around...I regret that. I hope she forgives me.

[Dengar27]

Your aunt did what she wanted to do. As long as you understood what she did, that's all that matters.

[robot2008]

i've had a similar dream about my friend who shot herself on june 6th. my wife had the dream about our friend first where she was in a room talking to her and asking her different questions. when i had the dream we were in a white room sitting on a couch talking and joking like we usually did before she shot herself. then in the middle of our conversation she jumped up and said she had to go and i did to and ran off. before she disappeared someone had appeared into the room with a needle in their hand and i asked what that was for and they told me that that was the only way i could leave the room alive and when the figure stuck the needle in my arm it was the most excruciating pain i have ever felt. before i left the dream and woke up in reality, i collapsed in the dream and then everything went black. the last thing i remember vividly was the pain shooting through my body from the shot and blacking out. it was really weird and really crazy. but it was like i was in a deep sleep and then woke up to talk to her in this room and then like i went back to sleep from the shot and woke up in real life. at least i know she is in peace.